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Living Life Her Way: Sandy's Story of Independence, Resilience and Community

At 82 years young, Sandra Travers, better known as Sandy, as she calls herself, has lived a life defined by resilience, independence and a solid commitment to family.

Today, Sandy enjoys life at a retirement village in Seaford, surrounded by friends, family and a supportive community. Whether she's heading out for coffee with neighbours, attending Morning Melodies, planning day trips or visiting loved ones, she continues to embrace life with the same determination that has carried her through decades of challenges and change.

"I'm very contented," Sandy says. "I can do what I want to do, when I want to do it."

That sense of independence has been a constant throughout her life.

Born and raised in Caulfield, Sandy spent much of her working life in retail, fitting shoes and building a successful career in sales after leaving school at just 15 years of age. But her greatest achievement, she says, has always been her family.

When her marriage ended, Sandy suddenly found herself raising two young boys on her own. Her eldest son, Richard, was just two years old, while Peter was only eight months old.

She moved back in with her mother while rebuilding her life and, a few years later, her parents helped her purchase a home in Caulfield, where she would raise her boys and create a stable, loving family home.

"It was always about the boys," Sandy recalls.

While she later met another partner and enjoyed several happy years together, life took another unexpected turn when that relationship also came to an end. Rather than dwell on disappointment, Sandy focused her energy where it mattered most, dedicating herself to raising her sons and supporting her family.

Family has always remained at the heart of Sandy's life.

Her mother later moved in with her and the pair shared 12 happy years together. Sandy fondly remembers her mum's love of bingo and the pokies and cherishes the memories they made during that time. Her mother lived independently until the age of 97 before a fall led to her entering residential care. She passed away around ten months later.

Sandy's own family has continued to grow. Today she is the proud mother of two sons, grandmother to two granddaughters and great-grandmother to a young great-grandson and great-granddaughter.

"They all keep in touch and visit often," she says. "I'm very lucky."

Life has also brought moments of personal discovery. It wasn't until she was in her 40s that Sandy learned she had been adopted, an unexpected revelation that gave her a new perspective on her own story. Coincidentally, her first husband Frank, whom she met in high school, had also been adopted.

"The only things we really had in common were the fact that we both were adopted and that we both barracked for Collingwood," Sandy laughs.

These days, Sandy is building new memories while continuing to enjoy the things she loves most. A self-confessed elephant enthusiast, her home proudly displays elephant artwork and collectibles gathered over many years.

"I just love elephants," she says. "They're so family-oriented and caring."

Maintaining her independence remains incredibly important to her, and that's where Seniors Community Care has played an important role.

Having first been introduced to Seniors almost four years ago, Sandy later chose them as her aged care provider when her government-funded support became available.

"Within five minutes of calling, everything was underway," she says. "It was all so easy."

Today, Seniors Community Care supports Sandy with services including cleaning, physiotherapy and podiatry, helping her remain comfortable, safe and independent in her own home.

"The biggest thing is knowing that if I need something, I only have to pick up the phone and call my case manager," she says. "Everyone has been wonderful."

Every few weeks, Senior’s support workers assist with the heavier household tasks that have become more difficult over time, including vacuuming, bathroom cleaning, making the bed and hanging out washing.

"They do the things that I can't really do anymore," Sandy says. "They're fantastic."

The support allows her to continue enjoying an active lifestyle. She still drives locally, catches up with friends, attends concerts and films, joins village outings and enjoys quiet afternoons reading by the beach.

For Sandy, accepting support has never meant giving up independence. Instead, it has helped her preserve it.

After a lifetime spent caring for others, she values knowing help is there when she needs it, while still remaining firmly in control of her own life.

Looking back, Sandy sees a life filled with challenges, triumphs, family and friendship. Looking ahead, she remains characteristically optimistic.

"I've had a wonderful life," she says. "As I've gotten older, it's comforting to know I can get the help I need and still live the life I want. I'm very happy and contented."

For a woman who has spent decades carving her own path, raising two young boys as a single mother, caring for her own mother, and embracing every chapter life has offered, that contentment is well deserved.

 

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